Pieces of the Puzzle
Pieces of the Puzzle
Something from the past is usually why we don’t get along with someone.
“They did this.” “You said that.” We can be unconsciously listening to our mind’s exhaustive portrayal about a situation and become emotional and defensive.
We always have the option to apologize, regardless of who’s at fault, and intentionally lower the flame but our ego doesn’t usually like that option.
So, if you don’t want to apologize, keep the word “you” out of these conversations. Instead, use the word “I.”
“I was wrong.” “I didn’t understand.” “I meant to say.” “I wish I had…”
We don’t always get the whole picture. You could be missing some information. You might even find out it was not that big of a deal on their end.
Just make an effort and set your pride aside. If you don’t, a small spat can develop into an all-out war.
Relationships are not always easy, but they are usually worth the effort.
